{"product_id":"how-can-i-forgive-you-the-courage-to-forgive-the-freedom-not-to-paperback-1","title":"How Can I Forgive You?: The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not to - Paperback","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp style=\"text-align: right;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reportcopyrightinfringement.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eReport copyright infringement\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eJanis a. Spring\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e\"If you are struggling with issues of betrayal--or the challenge of whether and how to forgive--here is the most helpful and surprising book you will ever find on the subject.\"--Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., author of \u003ci\u003eThe Dance of Anger\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eEveryone is struggling with how to forgive someone: an unfaithful partner, an alcoholic parent, an ungrateful child, a terrorist. This award-winning book, recently updated with a new afterword by the author, provides a radical guide to healing from betrayal for hurt parties--without forgiving, as well as a way for offenders to earn genuine forgiveness.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn the complex psychology of forgiveness, we've been taught that forgiveness is good for us and that good people forgive. Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring, a gifted clinical psychologist and award-winning author of \u003ci\u003eAfter the Affair, \u003c\/i\u003e proposes a radical, life-affirming alternative that lets us overcome the corrosive effects of hate and get on with our lives--without forgiving. She also offers a powerful and unconventional model for earning genuine forgiveness and rebuilding trust--one that asks as much of the offender as it does of the hurt party.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBeautifully written and filled with insight, practical advice, and poignant case studies, this bold and healing book is essential self-help for relationships, offering step-by-step, concrete instructions that help us make peace with others and ourselves, while answering such crucial questions as these: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow do I forgive someone who is unremorseful or dead?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhen is forgiveness cheap?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCan I heal myself - without forgiving?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow can the offender earn forgiveness?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat makes for a good apology?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow do we forgive ourselves for hurting another human being?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 288\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.68 x 8.08 x 5.46 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e May 03, 2022\u003c\/div\u003e\n            ","brand":"Books by splitShops","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50333405774061,"sku":"9780063219069","price":17.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0020\/8918\/9441\/files\/NqP6iSey3N9780063219069.webp?v=1784986029","url":"https:\/\/www.webster.direct\/en-ca\/products\/how-can-i-forgive-you-the-courage-to-forgive-the-freedom-not-to-paperback-1","provider":"Webster.Direct","version":"1.0","type":"link"}